I have a friend whose daughter was born stillborn. She had terrible depression for a long time and people insinuated that she should "get over it". This type of talk was not what she needed I just listened to her and that's what she needed most. Talking about it, even 100 times, with a friend who does not judge and understands that people never really "get over" some hardships and the time it takes to feel a little more normal is different for every person. Faith is most important because she knows where her daughter is and without faith in God, it is hard to have the strength He gives us to continue life Fter